The Hampton stabbings: When the threat to your family’s safety is really on your doorstep

Man holding knife in threatening way about to stab

How many of us trundle around our own neighbourhood streets without barely so much a passing thought for our safety? Yet how paranoid are we when travelling into busy spots which could potentially pose as a juicy terrorist target? These were the thoughts that raced through my head only minutes after I heard the news about the recent Hampton stabbings –  that four woman had been stabbed in unprovoked attack by a man in a Sainsbury’s car park down the road from where I lived in Hampton, in the leafy suburbs of West London. Just before, children had been making their way to the school nearby, mums busily going about the school run oblivious to the danger that was to rein havoc only moments later.

Quite easily, this could have been me – or anyone else who had only moments before been minding their own business in our neighbourhood – knifed by this man.

I had become so preoccupied with fears of what could happen every time I travelled into London, startlingly aware of our vulnerability which is out of our hands almost every single time I left the safe little pocket of our family. I had become allergic to the mere thought of flying on an aeroplane again.

But yet, just down the road – four women in their 50s, 60s and 70s, had gone from everyday life –  to life threatening, within a blink of an eyelid. Perspective doesn’t even begin to cover it.

We are so caught up in our hamster wheel lives that rarely do we give a thought to how easily that could change with being in the wrong place, at the wrong time, yet never was that sentiment so overwhelming at that very point in time.

And now for some interesting stats:

The chances of dying in a terrorist attack = 9, 300,000/1

The chances of dying in an airplane crash = 11,000,000/1

The chances of being killed in a road accident = 8,000/1

The chances of being murdered (perhaps by a knife-wielding random!) = 1,000/1

The recent incident against the backdrop of these statistics certainly puts things in perspective.

Never more have I thought that you only get one shot at this life, and the time for living is now – not when the kids have flown the nest. And that really, we should stop stressing about those things which in the grand scheme of things, are highly unlikely.

Have you experienced any major incidents in your area which have caused you to re-evaluate how you think? Do share in a little comment below….



  1. I totally trust those stats although ironically in the ‘good old days’ when ‘all’ we had to worry about were the IRA attacks, my mum did in fact miss the one that went off in Wembley in the late 80’s by a mere 30 seconds because she realised she hadn’t put money in the meter and went back to the car! #BloggingMumsClub

  2. I used to live in East London and one morning we woke up and looked out the window to discover forensics and two tents covering two dead bodies. Two young lads had been chased, blocked by cars and stabbed to death. We were already in the process of buying a house in Hertfordshire and I am so glad I’m out of London. I know it can happen anywhere but London is defo more common. Someone got shot not far from where we used to live just a couple of weeks ago. I wouldn’t go back there if you paid me and yet the reason we moved away was because of the property prices! People pay ridiculous amounts of money to live in really scary places!

  3. I’m glad it’s not just me that thinks like this! When something happens close to home it really has an impact doesn’t it.

    Re the stats: Most murders are “domestic” (e.g. Partner or ex partner etc) and nearly all are perpetrated by someone known to the victim. So, as someone who lives with Anxiety, and finds a lot of local and wider incidents very triggering (fair share of ‘close shaves’ in my family too) I’d encourage anyone to remember that the chances of ever being attacked or killed by a stranger are very, very low.

    It’s important for our wellbeing not to let such fears affect your enjoyment of everyday life too much and if it does – maybe get some additional support for managing these feelings x

  4. This was really scary when it happened. I’m always aware that my kids wouldn’t understand what was going on and due to their difficulties end up getting them or someone else hurt. My stomach feels sick just thinking about it.

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